And by distance, I mean I shuffled the cards for them and interpreted over an Instant Messenger. This reading was done for someone I've never met in person, but that is very special to me. I again used the Past-Present-Future spread that I had originally used with Fem. I will call this lovely lady "Mare."
I recently spoke with someone who has read the cards professionally, and she noted I was missing a step. I'm now attempting to remember to do this every time. Before starting a reading, I asked her to, along with me, imagine a golden light surrounding us, protecting us, and guiding and supporting us. It should start as a small glow in your heart, and expand to surround you.
Once we were both ready, I began shuffling, as she focused on the topics of health, finances, and spirituality. She told me when to stop shuffling. I then cut the deck three times with my left hand, restacked, and dealt out the 9 cards with my left hand.
1. Eight of Swords, R
2. Nine of Rods, R
3. Judgment, R
4. King of Cups
5. Wheel of Fortune, R
6. Three of Pentacles
7. Ace of Pentacles, R
8. King of Pentacles, R
9. Two of Rods, R
Right off the bat, I could tell the financial influence on the cards- LOTS of pentacles!
I'm going to basically copy/paste what I said to her, paraphrase some of my lines to protect her privacy, and briefly mention her comments on the interpretations.
#1: General/distant past:
Essentially, healing. Your faith was restored, your positivity returned, and you began to regain health and productivity; Freedom
At first, Mare thought it may be an "opposite" reading, in which... well, self explanatory. (Opposite of meaning, not reversed vs. upright). I pointed out that while it may not be childhood past, it could be distant enough that it could relate to meeting her current partner. We ended up deciding on that as the next card was alas, not opposite.
#2: Recent Past:
In order to determine the validity of the last card (opp. or not), I asked her one question: How her health is now. And so, this card: symbolizes ill health, perhaps not taking care of yourself as much as you should. Very true!
#3: Influences just passed, or about to pass:
Fear of illness or death (FEAR of death, not actual death!), fear of change? ill health.
**I would just like to point out: I, for the most part, did not move on until she had absorbed what I was saying, as well as until she had had time to comment, etc. BIG THING ABOUT MY READINGS:
I believe Tarot is not a "fortune telling" trick, but an examination of yourself. Therefore, much of my readings is comprised of discussion, a give and take conversation between myself and the subject.#4: Hopes:
A respectable, strong and powerful man, possibly mysterious or private, who is artistic and gives wonderful advice. EASY- points to her love, her man, her strength.
#6: Fears:
**I know I flipped the Present card before Fears, but because Hopes and Fears are so intricately intertwined, I tend to ask if they mind if I interpret the two consecutively.
This was a difficult card for me to interpret, so I will likely pull some of Mare's responses to help explain.
I have a vague idea of why it could be a "fear." Three of Pentacles symbolizes approval or the success (after a lot of effort).. A reward for your success. Alternatively, it could symbolize growing confidence or inner satisfaction. My only thoughts on this were from a prior conversation. Mare's comfort lay in her position wife and mother, and not as much in the paid workforce. I asked her, Are you afraid, or worried, about the consequences of helping her boyfriend with his work? (Currently, she was helping him take on some of the responsibility). Or, are you afraid about his success? Her response was: "not so much about the consequences, I am anxious for him about his [promotion], that he thinks its taking too long, I think he is doing very well."
#5: Present:
Essentially, the Wheel represents a current change in fortune. However, it could also show bad luck, interruption, or unexpected changes... I asked her if any of those happened VERY recently?
Her response was a number of things that were changing, or new, unexpected that she was worried about.
Future. I lumped these three together to a certain extent, because they were all fairly similar.
#7: Influences about to arrive:
There's a lot you WANT to do with money, but not all of it is necessary- stay smart about things. Money isn't everything. Remember what and who you have, and cherish those for what they are.
#8: Near future:
King of pentacles reversed is difficult... The best I can say is something about materialism (perhaps related to what I just said for Ace of pentacles, reversed). It also deals with someone slow to anger.. perhaps you or him being patient with any money difficulties?
She began to get emotional, letting everything hit her, her worries, the cards, her spirituality, and I offered her a piece of advice:
I will say one thing before I move on the final card: A lot of this spread seems to be saying to just trust in him, trust in your relationship with him, be open and yourself with him!#9: General/distant Future:
Final card: BE. Patient!! This actually rings a bit true with what you said about the present, in regards ot his being bored, perhaps? It represents loss of interest or faith as well... I'm leaning more towards loss of interest, considering what you said earlier.
And that was the reading! And Mare gave me some of her strength and support: She said my reading for her was more accurate than one she had received from a professional Tarot reader a couple of years back!! O.O THANK YOU!!! <3